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You have to pick your thing

Worry feels like doing something, as if the more you experience distress, the more you’ve done. But feeling changes nothing. A frenzy of sudden activity and quick, quitting exhaustion also feels like accomplishment. “I did everything I could!” But things are very bad, and we need more than that. You’re going to have to pick […]

January 24, 2025

Worry feels like doing something, as if the more you experience distress, the more you’ve done. But feeling changes nothing. A frenzy of sudden activity and quick, quitting exhaustion also feels like accomplishment. “I did everything I could!” But things are very bad, and we need more than that.

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Finding a better Lord of the Rings analogy for US politics

This sort of comparison goes back at least as far as 2016 (“Imagine if Frodo was all ‘Sauron’s bad, but Gandalf’s done some morally gray stuff, too, so I’ll stay home.’ Don’t get eaten by orcs. Vote.”), and to liberals who like to situate themselves as being the ultimate good and voting as the ultimate […]

June 20, 2024

But they're BOTH so OLD! Gandalf can barely remember his passwords and even forgot that people called him Gandalf (yikes), while Saruman betrayed the Free Peoples of middle-earth and led an insurrection that stormed Helm's Deep. You can see how they're equally bad choices. — JRR Jokien (@joshcarlosjosh) February 15, 2024

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Christian charity must guarantee misery

The charity of evangelical Christians is, like everything else, based on their worship of power. This is why these same Christians who will reach into their own pocket to provide a destitute person with food, drink — even provide them cash without condition — will still refuse and actively fight efforts to ensure that such […]

May 3, 2024

scene from film adaption of Stephen King’s “Misery” with Annie (Kathy Bates) labeled “christian charities” looking at injured author Paul Sheldon (James Caan) labeled “homeless people” lying in bed with broken legs from a wreck and ankles she’s broken

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What you have had is bad enough

“A person can drown in six inches of water, it doesn’t matter if someone else is drowning in ten feet! you’re both still fucking drowning!” You can be assured that someone out there has it worse. You can also be assured that what you have had is bad enough. Please take care of yourself the […]

May 6, 2023

Tumblr @enbygesserit you can't oppression olympics your way out of how your trauma affected you. "other people had it worse" bitch! I don't care! just from looking at you it's plain and obvious that you've had a time of it! a person can drown in six inches of water, it doesn't matter if someone else is drowning in ten feet! you're both still fucking drowning! show yourself a little bit of compassion before I come over there and do it for you. this is a threat this especially applies to all the people in the tags saying it applies to everyone else but them. sorry

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“Protecting children from irreversible bodily changes”

@fandomsandfeminism:Only about 2% of high school athletes are awarded ANY sports scholarship to college. This idea that sports, especially lucrative and dangerous high school football, are some wonderful godsend that will propel underprivileged kids to a better life is by and far not true. I’m not saying we ban tackle football, but 1. It’s a […]

May 3, 2023

quasi-normalcy Every single person I know who did football in high school, without exception, has a chronic injury. Many regret what it's done to their knees and back, even major organs like the brain. There is no serious legislative push to ban high school football. Also, like, if you want to talk about social pressure on minors to undertake activities that will result in regrettable, irreversible damage to their bodies: No one, *ever*, tried to persuade me to transition. My gym teacher tried to persuade me to try out for the football team almost every single day that I was in junior high. And if you had asked me, even back then, whether I would rather lose my reproductive capacity or suffer irreversible brain damage, I know that I would have chosen the former without a second's hesitation.

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Be your best self

Tumblr Anonymous asked:I identify as butch but have lots of soft plushies in my bed… do you think I ought to remove them before I invite someone over for hookups? never see any butches with plushies tbh so a bit selfconscious @queermasculinedon’t be self-conscious dude. hoarding plushies is a masculine trait. your ancient shepherd instinct. […]

December 14, 2022

Tumblr screenshot Anonymous asked: I identify as butch but have lots of soft plushies in my bed... do you think I ought to remove them before I invite someone over for hookups? never see any butches with plushies tbh so a bit selfconscious @queermasculine don't be self-conscious dude. hoarding plushies is a masculine trait. your ancient shepherd instinct. if i came over and saw a butch had a bunch of plushies i wouldn't be like Ew i'd be like Bro, your deep intrinsic drive to protect and shelter other creatures is being channelled into collecting all these little yarn animals and tiny cloth people? kiss me

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“Disability is great”

Do support your disabled friends and community, but for example, if an artist is doing a commission for you, listen to them very specifically about how the payments are going to work. The USA’s policy toward disabled people, like many people, is best described as “eugenics… but make it a little less obvious”, so the […]

November 18, 2022

Satanic Antifascism logo as the wheel to an "accessible" symbol, the variant with the person in the wheelchair leaning forward

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A better world was possible (a better world still is)

Tumblr @avramchajabeing a jew studying preholocaust european jewish history is just mourns over what could have been, mourns over what could have been, mourns over what could have been, mourns over what could have been, mourns- @meirmakesstuffWWII alternate history stories always go “What if the Nazis won.” WHAT IF THE JEWS LIVED? @kanguinThat’s actually such […]

November 9, 2022

Tumblr @avramchaja being a jew studying preholocaust european jewish history is just mourns over what could have been, mourns over what could have been, mourns over what could have been, mourns over what could have been, mourns- @meirmakesstuff WWII alternate history stories always go “What if the Nazis won.” WHAT IF THE JEWS LIVED? @kanguin That’s actually such a good point about alternative history. So many ask “what if we got the bad ending?”, ignorant of the fact we did, that’s just a worse ending. Asking “what if the Nazis won” allows one to live in the safe world where the Nazis were the root source of evil in WWII. Asking “what if the Jews lived” forces you to confront the fact that almost all of Europe was complicit in their eradication. Every European power, the United states, everyone involved hated the Jewish people. Everyone was complicit in antisemitism, everyone just sat back and let it happen. It took an invasion of Poland for the UK and France to act, and it took a direct attack on the US for the US to officially get involved. All of the torture, enslavement, and murder of Jews before this were overlooked because not even below the surface, the German antisemitism wasn’t unique. And basically nobody has the guts to address that.

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Fat disabled people, gender, and sexuality

Tumblr @corporealphantomReminder that fat disabled people exist and have a sexuality. Reminder that fat disabled people can be queer. They can be bi, pan, lesbian, gay, ace. They can be trans. They can be loud and provocative, or gentle and soft. Fat disabled people can be desired and can also desire. They can be saucy, […]

October 26, 2022

corporealphantom Reminder that fat disabled people exist and have a sexuality. Reminder that fat disabled people can be queer. They can be bi, pan, lesbian, gay, ace. They can be trans. They can be loud and provocative, or gentle and soft. Fat disabled people can be desired and can also desire. They can be saucy, and flirtatious. They can feel at home in their own bodies, and they can make love to themselves. Fat disabled people can be seductive, and surprising. They can attract men, or women, or any gender beyond, combined, or in between. They can enjoy what they look like in the mirror, or in risque clothes. Fat disabled people can love the feel of their body pressed to another's, or be turned on when their partner writes a smutty text to them. They can be bold or inhibited, they can by coy. Fat disabled people can feel sexy when they move from their mobility devices to the bed. They can feel hot in their sex swings, and on their wedges, or using their canes. They can feel sexy when their partners fingers sink into the flesh of their thighs, and bellies, and buttocks. Fat disabled people can be kinky. They can be dominant, submissive, or switch. Fat disabled people are have the full spectrum of sexuality, because fat disabled people are human beings with agency over their bodies.

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Stop searching for the right way to shout “Rumpelstiltskin!” at conservatives

Please stop doing this. Queen Mab may be bound by clever wordplay, but conservatives are not the fey. The devil may be forced to keep his promises, but Christian Nationalists are not restrained by the same integrity as Old Scratch. “Oh-ho! They didn’t think through their own rules, hmm? What fools! Don’t they even know […]

October 12, 2022

No "literature" "involving" "sexual orientation or related subjects" for under 10s? So Fantastic Mr Fox, Owl Moon, The Cat in the Hat, and any other book involving heterosexual couples is banned? GOP really don't think straight is a "sexual orientation," do they. — Joshua Libling (@JJLibling) October 18, 2022

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